THE BACH FLOWER WILLOW

Expression children

Children are in the negative willow state sorry and always complain about other children. you are very resentful and snappy sometimes with pleasure.

You blame others when things go wrong. In school, they feel they have been treated unfairly and react with accusations and reproaches. "I always have to answer the most difficult questions!"

The child always sees himself as a victim, everyone plays along with him. These children can become uncomfortable adults who don't treat other people and have a negative aura.

Expression adults

In the negative Willow state, you only look for blame in the outside world, thinks negative and destructive. You feel badly treated by fate, resent and have Bad mood. You don't understand other happy people, you put it on to spoil their good mood. You are not at peace with yourself. This condition can happen to anyone from time to time, but it is then temporary. However, this can Condition can also become chronic and then has a destructive effect on the person himself and his environment.

Often you get into this state when you have to give up privileges, your own situation has worsened. For example, if you become unemployed, go through puberty or menopause, or become chronically ill. At this moment one sees only difficulties permanently and no way to get the best of it to some and don't stop comparing with previous happy times.

You are spoilsport and bad-luck maker because you direct your own disappointments and resentments outward. You feel disadvantaged and treated unfairly by the bad fate “How did I deserve this?” And only see to blame in the environment alone.

Own behavior is not reflected and by no means considered as a trigger. Willow stressed people can hold an inner grudge against a situation or person for a long time without ever talking about it. It all happens subliminally, Anger smoulders but never really breaks out of you. You go through life with the corners of your mouth pulled down and your facial expression annoyed. You are surrounded by an invisible wall of negative thoughts. Often a pronounced one shows up Wrinkling around the mouth (lemon mouth).
Through the pronounced self-pity and the deeply felt negative thoughts one becomes immobile, developed Pain in muscles and joints.
Willow types are great at demanding without wanting to give yourself. This causes other people to withdraw. This is how the chronic willow person becomes more and more lonely and withdraws bitterly more and more. The only thing that catches your eye is the negative side of life. Even after recovering from a serious illness, people are reluctant to admit that they are better.

Target of the Bach flower Willow

Willow should help to realize that in everything we suffer, we also make our own contribution. Man learns to take full responsibility for his fate. You turn from victim to ruler over your fate and try to make the best of it for yourself in all life situations.

People in the positive willow state shine Calm and optimism out. You can see that where there is light there has to be shadow and everyone has to carry their own package, even if it looks different from the outside. One learns to indulge and to believe deeply that everyone is the maker of their own happiness (or unhappiness).